Lots of love! Your child needs to know that you support him/her no matter the outcome of their performance or the final score of the game. Your child needs to see good sportsmanship and appropriate behavior on the sidelines. Ask your coach how you can follow through with the skills taught during practice at home, without the pressure of performance. Remember, this is a skills development program, not a pre-curser to college scholarships. "Child first, athlete second".